About – The Story Behind

Wider Embraces offers:

  • Perspectives – Wider Embraces explores the collective dimensions in a radically new way, making large parts of reality visible, that can’t be seen from an individual viewpoint
  • Belonging – Wider Embraces lets you connect to, rest in and feel a deep belonging to everything you are a part of, from family to Universe. 
  • Worldview – Wider Embraces is a tool for personal development, leadership and most of all to handle the global challenges we are facing on this planet. 

Link to the Formal Definition of Wider Embraces.

Wider Embraces challenges:

  • Wider Embraces challenges the materialistic worldview by offering a method that let us experience its subjectivity from a first-person perspective. 
  • Wider Embraces challenges the individualistic worldview by offering a real collective perspective.
  • Wider Embraces challenges the spiritual worldview by offering alternative interpretations of what is seen as inner, personal or other-worldly experiences. 

About Stina and her Sources of Inspiration

This list will give you some hints about my roots and of the sources of inspiration, from where Wider Embraces has sprung. 

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Resting in the Embrace of the Universe.
Grounded in the simplicity of no agency.

Cosmology and the vast Universe

When I was four years old, I was looking at the stars together with my father. He told me that no one knew where the universe ended. It blew my mind, and since then I’ve tried to understand infinity … 

I’m still struggling with grasping the vastness of the universe, though science has made tremendous progress during my lifetime and today we understand so much more.

The book The View From the Center of the Universe, by Primack and Abrams, made me feel more at home in our beautiful and vast, complex yet simple physical Universe. With the Wider Embraces method – I can become aware of the Embrace of the Universe,  I can rest in that Embrace, and I can change perspective, and be the Universe. 

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As the Embrace of the Biosphere – I am life.
My body is all living beings on this planet.

Our diverse and beautiful Biosphere

To look closely at a straw of grass opened my eyes to the tender beauty that is all around us. To distinguish between different kinds of moss while walking across the wetland trained my awareness.

During my teens, I spent my free time outdoor together with my friends in our local Field Biology Club in Södertälje outside Stockholm. Examining flowers and birds, lichens and butterflies and just enjoying the sunrise, the snowfall and the colours of the autumn leafs.

We were also a part of the growing environmental movement during the 70s, and I had my first political insights and realised that the grown-ups didn’t have a clue about how to solve the problems our modern lifestyle caused. 

environmental movement
The fight against the others, the destroyers, is over. The views from the Wider Embrace helps me navigate differently.

The Environmental Movement

From my first job at the Field Biologist Organisation, up until I started my web company in the year 2000, I mainly worked in different environmental organisations in Sweden, from the Anti-Nuclear Campain to Friends of the Earth and The Green Party

Two of my primary sources of inspiration around how to think about the relationship between Humanity and the Biosphere are Ecosophy by Arne Naess and Eco-philosophy by Henryk Skolimowski

During the last twenty years, I’ve been more or less away from the environmental scene, exploring other aspects of life. With the Wider Embraces project, I’m back again, but from a very different angle. 

 

Aikido_Stina Deurell and Jonas
I’m still doing Aikido all the time, the principles are universal and can be applied everywhere. 

Aikido – Connecting to Others and Other Cultures

For twenty years the aikido dojo was a significant part of my life. Spending about ten hours a week on the mat exploring the depths and limits of my body and mind and how to relate to others with both force and harmony. 

For most of those years, I also taught a lot and was running one of Swedens largest Aikido dojos together with a friend – Lunds Aikido Dojo.

To dive deep into the Japanese martial arts culture, one that is very different from the Swedish way of equality and consensus broadened my view. To make it work practically in our dojo and on the national and international level was a real challenge.

computer-science
I remember the first time I surfed the web in the late 80s – I was actually looking at information that was stored on a computer on the other side of the Atlantic!

Computer Science and Web Design

There is a way of writing code where the function is calling itself in a deep loop; it’s called recursion. It’s a special way of thinking, and my mind switched into a different mode of working during that course. It was the first time I got aware of my mind. 

It was in the mid-80s that I studied computer programming at the University and got my degree. Since then I’ve worked with computers, mainly with databases, communication systems, websites and graphic design. Since the year 2000, I’m doing all of this as a self-employed consultant. 

To rest in our wider Embraces is the best healing method I’ve experienced so far. No magic rituals, no exclusive skills – Just open to the unconditional Embraces.

Healing, Morphic Fields and Dowsing

In the mid-90s, in every new group I joined, there was one person I felt more connected to and after a while, I found out that they were doing Reiki healing. So I learned it too and later became a Reiki Master. It took me a year of practice before I could feel the “energy”, but eventually, it became a natural part of how I perceive the world. 

Around the year 2000, I met Rupert Sheldrake and learned about Morphic Fields. These ideas and all the experiments he has done has meant a lot for my understanding of our profound connectedness. I see Wider Embraces and Morphic Fields as overlapping concepts. 

Both my parents have been working a lot with dowsing, measuring lay lines and other types of “energy”  around ancient constructions but also helping people find water and a good place for the bed. So I’ve been immersed in a worldview stretching beyond the plainly visible. 

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Dag Hammarskjöld: … så såg jag att muren aldrig funnits, att ”det oerhörda” är här och detta, icke ett annat … (english translation soon …)

Zen Meditation with an Open Mind and Heart

When I moved to a cottage outside Höör in 1998, I found out that there was a zen centre 500 meters down the road. After a while, I joined, and bit by bit became a dedicated practitioner. 

Enekulla Zendo is run by Pelle Bengtsson, and he was the perfect zen teacher for me. The zendo is a beautiful blend of traditional Japanese culture with strict rules on the one hand and a lot of open mind and heart on the other. 

Zen was not my first encounter with meditation, my whole family learned TM when I was in my early teens and we all did it twice a day for some years. After that being out in the forest, alone or with friends,  became my way of connecting to something more vast and still. 

Nature Photographer Stina Deurell
My photography has taught me to literally see beauty everywhere. The challenge is to make an image of anything that transmits that beauty to the spectators.

To See Beauty Everywhere – And Catch it

My camera connects me to the planet and its beauty, and it allows me to share that connection with others. I love being out in the forest by myself, and also to give courses and to create slide shows and exhibitions. 

Thanks to my first digital camera and the internet, I found other photographers who saw images in a similar way I did. In 2005 I was accepted into The Swedish Association for Nature Photographers, as one of their first two female members. 

You can see some of my photos on my site www.deurell.se/portfolio-foto/

Swedish integral-summer-camp-2010
In 2010 three of us from Malmö Integral, arranged the first and only Swedish Integral Summercamp at Holma.

Integral Philosophy and Friends

Integral philosophy by Ken Wilber offers a useful toolbox for thinking about almost everything. To understand more about how different areas of Life and Universe relate to each other and have developed over time. 

I’ve been part of the integral community since 2008 and my first four years was a deep dive into complex thinking and meta-theories, together with my wonderful friends in Malmö Integral. We studied Wilbers work, Subject-Object theory by Robert Kegan, Spiral Dynamics by Don Beck and Chris Cowan and much more. But most of all Malmö Integral was a safe, yet challenging, place to share our ideas and applications, to experiment, meditate, move, and discuss.

 

Fear of God
Is Domesday real or not? Until you deeply know it’s not, you live in fear, consciously or unconsciously.

Fear of Domesday Despite a Secular Upbringing

I’m a third generation secular person, living in the most secular country on the planet, Sweden. Despite that, I found an intense fear of God, of Domesday and eternal punishment, deep inside me when I started to challenge the Christian God. 

Around 2009 I read the whole Bible, and the Coran and I had to blaspheme from the bottom of my heart to push through the fear and get out on the other side, free. Now no one can threaten me with Gods punishment, I know there is no judgmental God, but there is a lot of wider Embraces. 

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“The most important thing in the world is to be willing to give up who you are for who you might become.” Nachman Bratzlav

Integral Coaching – Out of the Comfort Zone

Suddenly an offer from Integral Coaching Canada appeared in my inbox, and the photo of James Baye looked at me and told me, that if I was ready to move out of my comfort zone, he was committed to challenging me. And he did, for sure.

We worked together for three years, more intensely during some periods and less during other. During the intense periods, I had daily challenges, and I wrote reflections in my journal every evening, and we met over Skype every second week, and I got new tasks. 

Looking back, I’m fascinated that I did take on all the challenges, but most of all I’m so very, very grateful for the beautiful, skilful, precise and invaluable coaching I got from James. 

big-mind-maditation

Big Mind and the Fear of Insanity

I don’t think I ever have felt such an intense fear, as when my arm rose by itself at the Big Mind seminar with Genpo Roshi in Copenhagen in 2010, and I got the microphone. We were exploring owned and disowned emotions and had come to insanity. I have no memory of how he walked me through my terror, but on the other side, there was light and love and freedom.  

And as a result, of that experience, I’m not afraid of being insane anymore. As many have pointed out, to be insane in an insane world, is sane. So I don’t care if it’s insane or not, to take collective perspectives and rest in the wider Embraces, and dream about a world where this is normal and sane. 

dojo-ladies

The Dojo Ladies – Playful Exploration

The Dojo, a gathering of a close circle of female friends, has been my most creative and beautiful playground. A place to experiment and dive into the Embraces in a very profound way. Dancing, meditating, eating, talking, all with open minds and hearts. 

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Expressing ideas in creative ways informs my thinking and understanding. To show the result to others is scary and wonderful.

Big Heart of Humanity – The Journey Begins

In May of 2011, I ended my apartment contract, got rid of my stuff and went out the door, free. But it all began in October the year before when I got my marching order during meditation.  

Before I left, I made one of my regular Eastern exhibitions with the theme The Activist and the Big Heart.

I travelled for a year, through Europe, to Egypt and South Africa and I wrote a blog during the journey. At Anafora in Egypt, I had the privilege to be able to make a much larger, exhibition with the theme Big Heart of Humanity.

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James last tweet: The more you commit to life, the more you can commit to death.

Who is Embracing? The Founding Question Arrives

A year into my journey, when I was in Cape Town, I got the message that my coach, James Baye, had died. He fell down a cliff in Joshua Tree National Park in California. 

He was one of the most vital people I ever have known, and he had been a great support, before and throughout the journey. I fell into an existential crisis, mourning a person I only met online, but who knew more about me than anyone else. Wondering if his coaching of me, was a path to my death?

A week after I got to know about James death, I was walking on the beach when the question “Who is Embracing?” came to me. Came in a way that I instantly knew that this is what my journey is all about. 

Wider Embraces is about our collective side of being and can only be fully experienced, explored and developed together.

Exploring and Developing the Wider Embraces Together

– Who is Embracing? I repeated the question over and over, letting myself sunk into it, got swift glimpses of another perspective. 

After a while, I brought the question to my friends, and we started to work with it together, in different ways and constellations. Because Wider Embraces is about our collective side of being, it can only be fully experienced, explored and developed together. Without my friends and their open-mindedness, playfulness and commitment, there would be no Wider Embraces.

Developing the method, exploring the new terrain and drawing the map, at the same time, has been a challenging and beautiful journey. The Wider Embraces project has undergone several iterations, and this version of the website is one in a row, and as new people join, new things will happen. I’m looking forward to the next steps.